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at 3:26 AM

My mind's a blank.


It seems like there's nothing wrong.

But I feel that there's something going on.




What is "LOVE" exactly?




Possessiveness is not love
Jealousy is not love
Lust is not love
Fear is not love
Keeping people all to yourself is not love
Expecting something from someone is not love.



To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are
exactly as they were before and exactly as they will be in the future.

Because people change all the time, so if you love the person,
you will love them even if they become something you disagree with.


Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement.
It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you.

It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people
“This is *MY* girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/whatever”.
You do not “own” anyone.


It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone
who always agrees with everything you say and do
and never does anything you disagree with.


Unconditional love means...
That the person can just live their life exactly as they choose
and you will always be there for them no matter what.


Unconditional love is more of a spiritual thing.
It’s not bound by physical things, like blood relations and the desire to procreate.
It has nothing whatsoever to do with sex.


Most people are in relationships because they’re horny and/or lonely,
even if they genuinely think they love the other person.
But if the person they “love” suddenly lost their “equipment” for whatever reason,
would they still want to be with that person?

Would they get jealous if the person they “love” wanted to spend time with other people as well? Relationships based on needs are not unconditional.


In order to truly understand love..
You must first forget everything you have ever learned about it from society..
and anyone else.
People always try to fit “love” in with things like dating, relationships and marriage and all.



And that is not call true love.